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David J. Kostolansky Jr.
September 11, 1966 ~ October 19, 2016 (age 50) 50 Years Old Light a Candle
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Message from Ron Paler
October 30, 2016 10:31 PM
I was one of David's freshman year roommates at Notre Dame 1984-1985 in Cavanaugh Hall and just found out about this sad news. My deepest condolences to the family. Sorry for this painful loss- far too soon.
Message from Tom and Sandy Tomko, San Antonio Texas
October 29, 2016 10:08 AM
Dear Dave, Marge and the Kostolansky Family,
We were sadden to learn of David's passing. Please accept our deepest sympathy, your Family is in out thoughts and prayers.
Fondly,
Tom and Sandy Tomko
We were sadden to learn of David's passing. Please accept our deepest sympathy, your Family is in out thoughts and prayers.
Fondly,
Tom and Sandy Tomko
Message from Karen Handler
October 22, 2016 10:21 PM
I worked with Dave at SRDS,
A gentleman, condolences to the family, so very sorry for your loss!
A gentleman, condolences to the family, so very sorry for your loss!
Message from Yvette Blank
October 22, 2016 9:13 PM
Deepest condolences to you all. Dave was a lovely man! I had worked at SRDS some years ago and met Dave at that time.
Yvette Blank
Yvette Blank
Message from Jack Kline
October 21, 2016 10:03 PM
I received this news through the Notre Dame grapevine. I'm not a Facebook participant. I was/am good friends with Dave's sister Julie... we were '90 grads but we lost touch. Through her I got to know her brother Dave as he graduated before us and moved to the city [Chicago] to a noisy little apartment near Kelly's Pub where the L trains rumbled by frequently like a scene out of the Blues Brothers. I got to visit that apartment many times and got to truly experience one of the most vivacious, generous, and welcoming individuals I have ever met in my life. I remember that Dave drove us [Paul, Julie, not sure Maggie] up to see REM play at Alpine Valley..and wow what a hoot that was. One the way back, Dave played a song that I wrote about a dozen times...that was a hoot too!!! Man, I hate getting news like this feeling like I should have never lost touch with the Kostolanky's ...what a great family. My condolences to your family. When I look at this smiling photo of Dave... I have the immediate reaction "sure I will get us both another".... Just like the good ol'times. Dave, I will miss you. You have a wonderful family and they will miss you dearly. You have beautiful and talented kids. Again, I will miss you...love you buddy. "Your memories are peculiar things.... there always there..."
Julie, Paul, Maggie, & Parents...Peace.
Julie, Paul, Maggie, & Parents...Peace.
Message from Kathy Hamilton
October 21, 2016 7:58 PM
Dear Mr and Mrs Kostolansky, Mary, Megan, Katy, Clare, Paul, Julie and Maggie,
Our prayers and sympathies are extended to you during this most difficult time. We were fortunate to have been friends with your family for years. I remember Dave as being such a nice guy and always with a smile on his face. May the memories you have bring you much comfort and peace in the days to come. Kathy Hamilton
Our prayers and sympathies are extended to you during this most difficult time. We were fortunate to have been friends with your family for years. I remember Dave as being such a nice guy and always with a smile on his face. May the memories you have bring you much comfort and peace in the days to come. Kathy Hamilton
A candle was lit by Kathy Hamilton
on October 21, 2016 7:53 PM
Message from Charlyne
October 21, 2016 4:16 PM
Our deepest Sympathy to out Tennis friend and her Family.
Love,
Dale & Charlyne Dresch
Love,
Dale & Charlyne Dresch
Message from Gino Tomaro
October 21, 2016 1:21 PM
I just met Dave a few years ago at Men's Frat at GEBC. We sat at a table together and quickly connected and become friends. He was such an inspiring and positive soul. Always with a subtle smile on his face and a kind word on his lips. Even while he was sick, he always asked how things were going in my life...and quick with a word of encouragement and strength.
I am so sad by the man that this world is losing, but am so thankful for how he touched so many people in the such a short time. I believe God uses certain people to do his work of loving, inspiring, caring for and showing compassion for his people...Dave was definitely one of those people. His impact will live on for a very long time
My heartfelt sympathies to his family and friends
I am so sad by the man that this world is losing, but am so thankful for how he touched so many people in the such a short time. I believe God uses certain people to do his work of loving, inspiring, caring for and showing compassion for his people...Dave was definitely one of those people. His impact will live on for a very long time
My heartfelt sympathies to his family and friends
A candle was lit by Anna Salemi
on October 21, 2016 10:13 AM
A candle was lit by Dor Pierce
on October 21, 2016 10:06 AM
Message from John Buckley
October 21, 2016 9:44 AM
I'm so sorry. David came from a great family and looks like he created another great family. Of the people I've lost touch with since graduating from ND, the entire Kostolansky family has always been at the top of my list of those I have missed most. Getting this news just now from another former classmate and I'm just in shock and crushed. Sounds like a life well lived and great role model for his children. Love and prayers for you all. - Buck
An A GARDEN PATH was sent on October 21, 2016
Our deepest sympathy - our hearts are with you. Tim Kostolansky and Hifumi Ogawa family - Timothy, Michael, Katherine.
A TRADITIONAL FUNERAL BASKET was sent on October 20, 2016
With our deepest sympathies, Joseph, Teresa and Abigail Kostolansky
An A GARDEN PATH was sent on October 20, 2016
Dear Mary, Megan, Katy, Clare & the Kostolansky & Pals families, We are so fortunate and blessed to have been touched by Dave in our lives. Our families have shared many wonderful moments and memories through the years that are forever imprinted in our hearts and minds. Love the Carens Family
Message from Kris Hamilton
October 20, 2016 5:16 PM
Dear Mr and Mrs Kostolansky, Paul, Julie and Margaret, and of course his wife Mary and daughters. My deepest sympathies to all of your during this incredibly difficult time.
We were fortunate to know this sweet family for many years. Dave always had a great smile and warm personality.
May your memories bring you comfort and peace. God Bless Dave and may eternal light shine upon him.
Thinking and praying for all of you.
Kris Hamilton
We were fortunate to know this sweet family for many years. Dave always had a great smile and warm personality.
May your memories bring you comfort and peace. God Bless Dave and may eternal light shine upon him.
Thinking and praying for all of you.
Kris Hamilton
A candle was lit by Kris Hamilton
on October 20, 2016 5:11 PM
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